This is a topic I could spend hours talking about, and I do hope to be able to write more in-depth posts about this topic soon to come.In a conversation recently, I was asked what I meant when I seek out connected sex, and what connection in sex was. Now, I could have just repeated things I’d heard (and did believe/identify with), but I wanted to dig a little deeper and find my OWN meaning and way to describe.I still haven’t pinpointed it down, but tonight I was feeling inspired (and stoned, very stoned), and jotted down everything that came to mind from “connected in sex.”I don’t often have the courage to post things SO intimate, but damnit that’s what I made this patreon for! So, let’s go!_________________________________________________________________________Connection In Sex:Being overcome with lust and hunger.Complete desire for the person you’re fuckingWild but focusedDesire to make your partner deep the same hunger for them you areEagerness to please and also take pleasureWalls shattered, if even just for the moment._____________________________________________________________I’ve been writing a lot more in an off-line journal, as a way to process trauma, learn more about myself, and also just as a fun memory keepsake. I’m still not comfortable sharing quite a few of them, but I’m going to start to post some of the ones about the ways I see & approach sex, dating, intimacy, and kink.I am always digging down into thw how’s and why’s of who I am, sexually. Learning more & exploring. It’s thrilling to be able to do this with all of you.If you have ANY questions or comments, PLEASE comment below. I always find other people’s beliefs about these subjects so fascinating and love to talk about sex in ways that people SHOULD be comfortable talking about sex!

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